John NachlingerJohn Nachlinger is a divorce attorney, mediator, and men's divorce strategist with more than 20 years of experience helping people navigate one of the most disruptive moments of their lives-without unnecessary conflict, financial destruction, or prolnged chaos.Over the course of his career, John has worked with thousands of clients facing divorce, custody disputes, and complex family transitions. He is widely known for challenging the traditional "scorched earth" approach to divorce and for pioneering flat-fee and strategy-first models designed to give clients clarity, predictability, and control-rather than fear and endless legal bills.What sets John apart is that he's not just a lawyer who studies divorce-he's lived it. His work blends legal insight with real-world strategy, emotional intelligence, and a deep understanding of how divorce actually plays out in people's lives, finances, and families. That perspective has made him a trusted advisor not only to clients, but also to professionals, media outlets, and audiences nationwide.John is the host of the Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed podcast and has been featured in outlets including Newsweek, The Associated Press, The Guardian, HuffPost, Law.com, Parents Magazine, NPR radio, and numerous national podcasts and television appearances, as well as local ABC and FOX affiliates.He lives in New Jersey with his husband, Rafael, and their daughter, Sydney. When he's not working, he can usually be found cooking, traveling, or reminding people that divorce doesn't have to destroy your future-if you approach it the right way. Read More Read Less