A young woman's struggle with marriage and motherhood on some of the most remote ranches in the American West. Jolyn Young grew up in the 'real' northern California - the forgotten area at the tip-top of the state with small towns, extreme poverty, and about 40 miles to the Oregonian mountains. In a childhood defined by a subdivision, she decided she wanted to be a cowboy, and two years out of college, she saw that dream through, taking a job at a Nevada ranch in the search for a lifestyle subsisting of horses, cattle, and the wide open range. Falling in love was never part of the plan. Jim Young was tall, strong, and could ride a bronc and rope a steer like no one's business. And before she knew it Jolyn found her cowboyin' dreams overtaken by a new and intoxicating cowboy reality. With long days side by side in the saddle, nights sharing a bedroll, and the deep satisfaction that came with hard physical work in a place filled with natural beauty, it seemed life was all a strong-willed young woman might want it to be. But when a baby-to-be suddenly spun her wild romance into a very practical marriage, and one decrepit ranch trailer home led to the next, Jolyn found her young family desperately seeking stability in what is by definition a transient lifestyle that moves with the seasons. Often hours from the nearest grocery store and half-a-day from the closest hospital, pregnancy, childbirth, and illness required a do-it-yourself mentality. With days, sometimes weeks on her own as Jim worked the farthest reaches of whatever ranchlands they currently called home - and first with one child to care for - and eventually with three - Jolyn fought profound loneliness, finding comfort in writing and company in her camera. As the cowboy lifestyle pulled them further toward the brink of civilization and Jim's drinking became a liability, losing him jobs and sending them packing, again, to yet another, different, distant cow camp, Jolyn struggled with the knowledge that she was choosing a life of scrubbing filthy mobile home floors and bunkhouse bathrooms in order to keep her family together. It would take leaving it, and Jim, for her to determine whether a world built on risk could coexist with the responsible mother she had needed to become. With a memoir that is brave, honest, and heartbreakingly funny, Jolyn Young has written the story of every young adventure-seeker, every new mother, and every partner who has loved an alcoholic in a whole new light - that of a campfire, on the edge of the desert night, miles away from cell phone reception.
About the Author :
Jolyn Young lives in the high desert of northeastern Nevada with her husband and three children. She writes about the comical side of living on a remote cattle ranch in the great American West. She lives down 15 miles of dirt road and 120 miles from the nearest Walmart, which shocks most people. (She was shocked to discover most people want to live close to a Walmart.) Jolyn's debut book is a memoir titled Never Burn Your Moving Boxes.
Review :
"Never Burn Your Moving Boxes is an inspiring story of a woman's strength and determination in the midst of a frontier lifestyle known to few. The book gives an intimate look into Jolyn Young's life as a wife and mother living hours from civilization on some of America's largest cattle ranches. Peppered with humor and heartache, Young paints a brutally honest picture of loneliness, alcoholism, family love, and redemption. It's a narrative told from an unsung hero of the American West--the cowboy's wife." --Bud Force, Cinematographer and Co-Director of the film Cowboys: A Documentary Portrait
"Jolyn tells her unique story with humor, heartache and brave transparency. With authentic descriptions of cowboy life and straightforward accounts of her marriage to Jim, her narrative takes readers on an adventurous journey as unpredictable as roping steers in rocky, sage-infested rangeland." --Ross Hecox, former editor-in-chief of Western Horseman Magazine
"A comical and unapologetically real story from a woman who not only has saddled the horse but wrangled the crew too--whether it be tough cowboys or kids. You'll enjoy Jolyn's adventures down dusty ranch roads!" --Shannon Rollins, Coauthor of A Taste of Cowboy and Comfort Food the Cowboy Way
"This book is simply irresistible, refreshing and impossible to put down. Jolyn Young, a mother of three, wife of a true cowboy, takes us on a memorable and deeply authentic journey into her remote and beautiful world and boy, is it a ride! The author is armed with a wicked sense of humor, a strong sense of survival and purpose, and a big, bright, strong, and ultra-fresh female Western voice. Don't miss this book--it is the real-life experience of a cowboy wife, and a refreshing antidote to the glittery and drama-driven world of 'Yellowstone'." --Feli Funke, Creative Producer of the film Cowboys: A Documentary Portrait
"Jolyn Young cleverly paints genuine pictures of ranch life from the perspective of a young woman trying to fulfill her dream of being a respected ranch hand in northern Nevada to unexpectedly becoming a mother and wife to an undomesticated ranch cowboy. Candidly written from the heart, Jolyn's book is a contemporary Western love story with moments of doubt, strife, humor, and plot twists and turns.... An entertaining read that will take you far from the blacktop and introduce you to a lifestyle few ever truly get to know." --Jennifer Denison, freelance writer and photographer, and former senior editor at Western Horseman Magazine
"Never Burn Your Moving Boxes is full of captivating tales of the American West--hidden towns, remote Indian reservations, and vast ranches only drifting cowboys and their families inhabit. But Jolyn Young's writing is about so much more than that. Through wit, exacting insight, and searing honesty, Jolyn writes about the choices we make in life and their profound consequences. How marrying a cowboy lands you in a remote camp run only by propane and four hours over rock strewn roads from the nearest town. How love turns into sorrow and back into love again. Jolyn's is a life most of us will never experience, but it is certainly one to which we can all relate. Never Burn Your Moving Boxes is a story worthy of the unique life lived by its author and the harsh American West where it takes place." --John Langmore, Screenwriter, Producer, and Co-Director of the film Cowboys: A Documentary Portrait
"As authentic as her secondhand sundresses and worn-out jeans Jolyn Young perfectly pens a sweetly honest, real-life account of a carefree, 20-something woman who finds herself suddenly, irrevocably immersed in marriage, motherhood and the barbed-wire-tough realities of loving a rough-around-the-edges cowboy. A gifted storyteller, Young takes readers on remote ranch adventures, reveals the meanderings of a woman's heart and spices up each chapter with girl-grit and a handful of humor. Saddle up for a comfortable ride that will keep you turning page after page as the adventures, struggles and laughs unfold. I couldn't put it down. I didn't want it to end. I can't wait for the sequel!" --Jeanie Hankins, Award-winning writer & newspaper publisher
"How many young women juggle their time between a career in journalism and buckarooing full time on a big ranch in the Great Basin? If that wasn't enough, Jolyn Young then married a handsome horseman and learned to deal with his friends, who gave wedding presents that could be life threatening. She drove worn-out ranch pickups down rough mountain roads in the winter, kept her baby from freezing to death in houses so cold that the mice slept outside, and then she ended up in the most remote cow camp in America. This book isn't fiction, it's about reality and romance in the modern West." --Ed Ashurst, Author, Cowboy, Ranch Manager
"Jolyn Young is as brave in her storytelling as she is in her own life." --Jessie Veeder, Singer/Songwriter/Writer/Photographer
"Never Burn Your Moving Boxes... an aptly titled foray into a way of life that women rarely dream of as little girls. However, it is as comfortable a read as riding a broke-in saddle. It takes guts to 'lay it all out there'...but she has plenty." --Daron Little, TA Ranch, Wyoming
"Jolyn's story is brave, honest, and often heartbreakingly
funny." --Western Life Today"This book, I gobbled up in a couple of sittings. It made me lose sleep. It made me late for work. I saw so much of myself and my family in her stories, the pages just kept turning." --The Wickenburg Sun
"Jolyn finds the humor and the bright spot in the darkness. Her memoir is brave, inspiring, and for me, it was a total page turner. I couldn't put it down until there were no pages left - and even then, I found myself revisiting her prose for the weeks to come. My hat is off to Jolyn and the strong, true cowgirl she is." --Heels Down Media's The Spark
