"I'm fine" is the biggest lie mothers tell.
You're holding it together on the outside while slowly unraveling on the inside. You're managing everyone's emotions except your own. You're trying to be the perfect mother-calm, patient, in control-and it's exhausting you.
What if you could stop pretending?
Leonora Found, certified coach and mother of three, wrote this book after years of trying to perfect a job that was never meant to be perfected. When her daughter asked, "Why can't you be like other mothers?" she realised she had a choice: keep performing, or get real.
She chose real.
I'm Fine is your roadmap from control to connection, from perfectionism to presence. Through honest stories spanning toddler chaos to young adult complexity, Leonora shares what happens when you stop managing emotions and start understanding them-both your children's and your own.
You'll discover:
- Why staying calm isn't the goal (and what is)
- How your imperfections become your greatest teaching tools
- Practical strategies for each developmental stage
- Tools for building emotional intelligence in your entire family
- What repair looks like when you've reacted instead of responded
- How to hold space for big feelings without losing yourself
This isn't another parenting manual promising easy answers. It's an invitation to do the messy, meaningful work of raising emotionally healthy children while becoming a steadier, truer version of yourself.
For mothers raising toddlers, school-age children, teenagers, or young adults who are ready to embrace emotional authenticity, practice mindful parenting, and build the deep connection that comes from being real instead of right.
Your children don't need you to be perfect. They need you to be present. Start here.
