Some stories do not end-they soften, linger, and learn how to live inside us.
How We Stayed: Poems on Endings and Memory is a luminous meditation on what it means to love, to lose, and to carry forward what time cannot erase. Moving through childhood wonder, first friendships, intimate love, devastating grief, quiet reckoning, and hard-won acceptance, this collection traces the emotional architecture of a life shaped not by permanence, but by connection.
These poems are attentive to the smallest moments: sunlight on a porch, a chair left empty, a name that trembles on the tongue, a road opening where one once closed. Memory is not treated as a burden here, but as a companion - sometimes heavy, sometimes gentle, always shaping who we become. Love is rendered in its many forms: tender and reckless, enduring and fragile, present even in absence. Grief is given room to breathe, to change, to teach, rather than to be rushed toward resolution.
Lora Dickens writes with lyrical clarity and emotional precision, allowing each poem to stand as both personal artifact and shared mirror. The collection unfolds as a quiet narrative, guiding the reader from nostalgia through heartbreak and loss, toward reflection, resilience, and the courage to keep living fully despite impermanence. What remains unfinished is intentional - an open space where the reader's own memories, regrets, and hopes are invited to enter.
How We Stayed is for anyone who has loved deeply, mourned quietly, or wondered how to move forward without leaving everything behind. It is a book about endings that are not conclusions, about staying - within memory, within love, within the ongoing work of being human. Long after the final page, its echoes remain, reminding us that even as life changes, something essential endures.
