Dear Cycle Breaker, is a letter to those breaking cycles they never would have chosen for themselves.
For those who are leaving relationships that once felt like love-and learning, often painfully, how to choose themselves.
It is for the ones who walked away, yet still feel guilt, doubt, or the pull to return.
For those who question their memory, minimize what happened, or wonder why leaving can hurt as much as staying once did.
This letter is for anyone untangling trauma bonds, abusive love, and the complex aftermath that follows-grief, loyalty, relief, longing, and everything in between.
Through gentle truth-telling and compassionate clarity, Dear Cycle Breaker, names what a trauma-bonded relationship actually is-without judgment, blame, sugarcoating, or justification-so you can understand why your heart feels divided and why healing is not linear.
It reminds you that confusion is not weakness.
That love and harm can coexist.
And that leaving does not mean it wasn't real-or that you never cared.
This is not a book that tells you how to leave.
It is a reminder of why you did.
A steady voice for survivors, cycle breakers, and anyone reclaiming their reality.
Offering validation, grounding, and permission to finally choose yourself-without apology.
Return to it whenever the urge to go back appears.
When guilt whispers.
When you feel tempted to put them first again
The Dear Cycle Breaker Series presents the same letter in three distinct formats, created to meet readers where their healing began:
Dear Cycle Breaker - for those recovering from abusive love, trauma bonds, and toxic romantic relationships of any kind.
Dear Son and Dear Daughter - written for those healing from abusive love, trauma bonds, and toxic dynamics rooted in parental relationships and immediate family systems.
