Why does everything feel like "me"?
Thoughts arise, emotions move, decisions happen-and somehow they all feel personal. There is a persistent sense of being a central "someone" behind experience, even when no clear source can be found. Why It Feels Like "Me" by Sandeep Chavan is a quiet, precise exploration of how this sense of identity is constructed by the mind-without permission, intention, or conscious choice.
This book does not attempt to improve the self, heal it, motivate it, or replace it with a better version. Instead, it investigates a more fundamental question: how does the feeling of "me" arise at all?
Drawing from direct observation rather than belief systems, the book examines identity as a psychological process-formed through memory, continuity, narrative, and attention. It shows how the mind creates a center where none is required, and how this center becomes the reference point for fear, control, effort, and suffering.
Written in a calm, non-dogmatic tone, the book avoids religious doctrine, spiritual promises, and therapeutic techniques. There are no exercises to follow and no conclusions to accept. Each chapter gently guides the reader to notice what is already happening: how ownership is assumed, how agency is inferred, and how the sense of "I" stabilizes itself through repetition and habit.
Rather than offering answers, Why It Feels Like "Me" creates clarity. It invites readers to see the difference between experience and identity, between awareness and the story built around it. In doing so, it allows understanding to settle naturally-without effort, belief, or resistance.
This book is for readers who are not looking to become someone new, but are curious enough to see what has been taken for granted all along.
About the Author :
Sandeep Chavan is an engineer-turned-teacher, independent researcher, and one of India's most prolific contemporary authors. With a body of work spanning physics, philosophy, psychology, human behavior, universal dynamics, geopolitics, and modern civilization, he has written and published over 150 books, building a distinctive intellectual ecosystem rooted in clarity, consequence, and fundamental principles.
As the founder of Gyrus Institute of Science, Sandeep teaches physics and mathematics to pre-engineering students, known for transforming complex ideas into simple, intuitive understanding. His educational philosophy blends conceptual depth with practical reasoning, enabling thousands of learners to think beyond formulas and engage with science at a foundational level.
His research framework, Universal Energy Dynamics (UED), introduces a non-mathematical, consequence-driven explanation of reality-offering new perspectives on fields, waves, intelligence, consciousness, and the hidden mechanics of the universe. Through UED and its allied models, SVE (Structured Vacuum Energy), LOC (Law of Consequences), and Ripple Dynamics, he bridges ancient insights with modern scientific inquiry.
Across genres-science, spirituality, self-development, psychology, and geo-strategy-Sandeep's writing remains rooted in one core belief: we understand the world through consequences, and we shape our future by learning to engineer them.
Whether decoding the universe in simple language or challenging long-held assumptions with constructive clarity, Sandeep represents a rare combination of teacher, thinker, and systems-level synthesizer-someone who stands comfortably between the material world and the world of ideas.
He continues to write, teach, research, and refine a body of work aimed at helping readers see reality with sharper understanding and greater awareness.
