The Gift Adversity Lib/E: The Unexpected Benefits of Life's Difficulties, Setbacks, and Imperfections

The noted research psychiatrist explores how life's disappointments and difficulties provide us with the lessons we need to become better, bigger, and more resilient human beings. Adversity is an irreducible fact of life. Although we can and should learn from all experiences, both positive and negative, bestselling author Dr. Norman E. Rosenthal, believes that adversity is by far the best teacher most of us will ever encounter. Whether the adversity one experiences is the result of poor decision-making, a desire to test one's mettle, or plain bad luck, Rosenthal believes life's most important lessons--from the value of family to the importance of occasionally cutting corners--can be best learned from it. Running counter to society's current prevailing message that "excellence" must always be aspired to, and failure or mistakes of any sort are to be avoided at all costs, Rosenthal shows that engaging with our own failures and defeats is one of the only ways we are able to live authentic and meaningful lives, and that each different type of adversity carries its own challenges and has the potential to yield its own form of wisdom. Using stories from his own life--including his childhood in apartheid-era South Africa, his years after suffering a violent attack from a stranger, and his career as a psychiatrist--as well as case studies and discussions with well-known figures like Viktor Frankl and David Lynch, Rosenthal shows that true innovation, emotional resilience, wisdom, and dignity can only come from confronting and understanding the adversity we have experienced. Even when life is hardest, there are meanings to be found, riches to be harvested, and gifts that can last a lifetime. Rosenthal illustrates his message through a series of compact, memorable chapters, each one drawn from episodes in the lives of his patients, colleagues, or himself, and concluded with a take-away maxim on the lesson learned.

About the Author :
Norman E. Rosenthal, MD, the author of the New York Times bestseller Transcendence, was born in Johannesburg, South Africa, and attended the University of the Witwatersrand. He conducted research at the National Institute of Mental Health for over twenty years, where he led the team that described Seasonal Affective Disorder. He was awarded the prestigious Anna Monika Foundation Research prize for his contribution to research in treating depression and has been listed as one of the best doctors in America and one of the country's top psychiatrists. Besides his New York Times bestseller, he is the author or coauthor of over 200 professional articles and several popular books, including Winter Blues, The Emotional Revolution, St. John's Wort, and How to Beat Jet Lag. He is a clinical professor of psychiatry at Georgetown Medical School. Erik Synnestvedt has recorded nearly two hundred audiobooks for trade publishers as well as for the Library of Congress Talking Books for the Blind program. They include The Day We Found the Universe by Marcia Bartusiak, A Game as Old as Empire edited by Steven Hiatt, and Twitter Power by Joel Comm.

Review :
"Dr. Rosenthal catalyzes conversations around adversity with tales of wisdom and survival that we can all treasure." -- "Mehmet C. Oz, New York Times bestselling author of You: The Owner's Manual" "I really loved Dr Rosenthal's book...adversity can be a great teacher." -- "David Lynch" "Norman Rosenthal is a psychiatrist with a special talent for turning research evidence into practical advice." -- "Peter D. Kramer, MD, New York Times bestselling author of Listening to Prozac" "Rosenthal captures both the complexity of our emotions and the pragmatics needed to harness them." -- "Andrew Solomon"