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This Was Never the Plan

This Was Never the Plan


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About the Book

Divorce brings a storm of emotions—grief, anger, confusion and shame. Yet while the ache lingers, life goes on.

Vaneetha Risner has walked through this pain. In this hopeful and honest book, she draws from Scripture and her own story to offer compassionate wisdom on...

  • Finding emotional clarity and letting go of shame
  • Trusting God in the uncertainties ahead
  • Healing relationally, resisting bitterness and finding community
  • Nurturing hope for the future

She also shares about navigating single parenting, church, dating and the work of rebuilding.

Whether you are in the early stages of divorce or beginning to restore your life, this book points to Christ’s faithful presence every step of the way. Helpful “check-ins” throughout invite you to pause, reflect and take hold of God again and again.

Includes appendices to guide friends and church leaders in supporting you.



Table of Contents:

Foreword by Paul David Tripp

  1. The Undoing
  2. Tears, Fears, and the Tenderness of God
  3. Letting Go Without Giving In
  4. The Lies We Believe and the Grace That We Need
  5. Reassessing, Rebuilding, and Rekindling Joy
  6. Parenting on Empty
  7. The Church, the Crowd, and the Friends Who Stayed
  8. Dating and the R Word
  9. Hope on the Horizon

Questions for Personal Reflection or Discussion

Appendix: How to Show Up When a Friend's Marriage Ends

Appendix: Some Helpful Forms for Communicating with Friends and Church 

Appendix: Helpful Resources on What the Bible Teaches 




About the Author :
Vaneetha Rendall Risner is passionate about helping others find hope and joy in the midst of suffering. Her story includes contracting polio as a child, losing an infant son unexpectedly, developing post-polio syndrome and going through an unwanted divorce, all of which have forced her to deal with issues of loss. She and her husband, Joel, live in Raleigh, North Carolina, and have four daughters between them. Vaneetha holds degrees from the University of Virginia and Stanford and is the author of several books, including This Was Never the Plan, Watching for the Morning and her memoir, Walking Through Fire. She is a regular contributor to Desiring God. She blogs at her website, vaneetha.com, and is obsessed with colorfulcolourful office supplies and dark chocolate.


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Product Details
  • ISBN-13: 9781802544145
  • Publisher: The Good Book Company
  • Publisher Imprint: The Good Book Company
  • ISBN-10: 1802544143
  • Publisher Date: 01 Apr 2026


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