With a mix of theory, practical advice, and clinical material, this resource for any clinician interested in applying the object relations model to their clinical or academic work. The book outlines object relations theory, leveraging clinical vignettes to underline the framework's applicability both in therapy and acute care settings.
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'Patients will lead us to their knots, and it is not for us to try to undo them but rather to understand how they came to be, realise how they are indeed a solution in a way, and empathise with the need for them to exist.' This quote represents the deeply empathic and respectful approach demonstrated in Miller's work as a containing supervisor, therapist and writer. He explains complex concepts with ease and relates these to real-life situations. He talks us through the psychodynamic framework and the importance of selfawareness with an openness to the difficulties in his own reactions that allows us to explore our own. Miller's overview of the theory
underpinning object relations is clear, nuanced and supported by clinical examples. This is not an easy read, as object relations theory is not simple, but Miller's is the best overview of theory that I have read. He renders the inscrutable Bion approachable, gives a concise but meaningful account of Kleinian concepts, interweaving these with contributions from other authors, including Winnicott. For anyone who has struggled with Bion in particular, Miller digests this and returns it to us, much like he does with clients' projections in clinical work - providing a similar kind of relief. I particularly enjoyed the desexualised version of Oedipus, drawing parallels between this and Klein's depressive position and the move from dyadic to triadic relationships. My only criticism is the lack of critique about object relations theory cross-culturally, but I enjoyed this book a great deal. It deepened my understanding of theory through flawless descriptions that made it all make sense, allowing me to reflect on current cases through a different lens.
The purpose of the book is to aid those interested in gaining a deeper understanding of object relations theory. Psychoanalytic theories can be rather cumbersome and convoluted, which can make it more difficult for individuals to feel at ease with the content. There is also a sense that object relations and psychoanalytic theories are no longer in practice. However, this book not only provides a clear narrative of the theory, but makes the concepts more accessible through conceptualization, supervision, clinical application, and case examples. Furthermore, it provides a neuroscientific explanation of how these concepts are involved in nervous system development.
The book is ideal for psychiatry residents looking to understand and apply object relations theory. Clinicians seeking a clear understanding of this theory will also benefit from the book. There are some variations within object relations, and this book comes from a Kleinian perspective rather than the transference-focused psychotherapy work of Otto Kernberg. This is developmentally helpful as it allows for a solid foundation of the theory. The author's training in psychanalysis as well as his role as Director of Psychotherapy Education has aided his understanding of how to learn the theory and effectively train others.
This is a useful book for residents and those teaching psychotherapy. It is difficult to find a book that is comprehensive yet user-friendly. Developmentally, this is a fantastic book for residents who are attempting to understand and feel grounded in Kleinian object relations theory, from setting the frame of therapy through termination. Additionally, most current books on object relations are not as focused within one tradition, which can be challenging to navigate for novice learners. As someone who provides psychotherapy supervision, I enjoyed the content of the book and how each chapter builds upon the next.
