In Search of the Proverbs 31 Man: The Husband Every Woman Wants

This fascinating and provocative book targeted to adults in search of a fulfilling relationship reveals what God requires and women desire when it comes to the ideal man. The Secrets to Finding, Nurturing-or Being-an Irresistible Man. Never before has the search for real connection between the sexes been more important-or more confusing. Single women want to know what they should ask for-not settle for-in a mate, while married women wonder how they can nurture godly character traits in their husbands. Men, both single and married, wonder what women really want. Both genders are long on questions and short on answers. Where Can Men and Women Go for Help? In Proverbs 31, Scripture presents a powerful composite of a virtuous woman. But what about the virtuous man-what does the Bible say about him? Popular Bible teacher Michelle McKinney Hammond tackles this timely and important question, digging into Scripture to study key men-from Adam to Christ himself, the ultimate bridegroom-to learn what God requires of husbands and men, and to lay out a trustworthy model of how men and women can live in healthy, fulfilling relationship. Find out what you can do to identify, nurture-or become-a truly godly man and mate in In Search of the Proverbs 31 Man. "This is not a man bashing book, but one that champions the original design for their lives. Women need real men." -Michelle McKinney Hammond

Table of Contents:
CONTENTS
Acknowledgments . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . xi
Introduction: Identity in Crisis . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 1
1. RECOGNIZING THE VOICE
Knowing Your God . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 7
2. YOU’VE GOT POTENTIAL
Pursuing Your Purpose . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 25
3. WHAT’S A RIB BETWEEN FRIENDS?
Embracing Your Design . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 49
4. LEAVING AND CLEAVING
Establishing Your Priorities . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 63
5. THE LIVING PROOF
Standing on Principle . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 77
6. CHARTING THE RIGHT COURSE
Setting the Stage for Righteousness . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 95
7. I’VE GOT YOU COVERED
Protecting Your Woman . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 111
8. THE PRICE OF A RING
Valuing the Marriage Covenant . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 131
9. WHAT A LITTLEMOONLIGHTWILL DO
Romancing Your Beloved . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 151
10. THE ULTIMATEMODEL OFMANHOOD
Following Your Perfect Example . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 171
“The Proverbs 31 Man” . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 191
Recommended Reading . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . . 193

About the Author :
Michelle McKinney Hammond, founder of HeartWing Ministries, is a vibrant author and speaker known for her insights into relationships between men and women. Her books include How to Be Blessed and Highly Favored, The Power of Femininity, and Secrets of an Irresistible Woman. She has been a keynote speaker for several women's conferences, including Women of Virtue and Focus on the Family conferences, and is co-anchor of the Chicago-based, syndicated, Emmy-nominated TV talk show Aspiring Women.

Review :

“Men, if you want to become a truly godly man and husband, In Search of the Proverbs 31 Man is a must-read. Women, if you want to know what to look for and nurture in a lifelong mate, this book is for you, too.”
–Dr. Greg Smalley, president and CEO, Smalley Relationship Center

“Michelle McKinney Hammond tells it like it is, without pretense or sugarcoating. In her own unique style, she relays simple truths concerning the essence of masculinity from God’s perspective. Every man wants to be ideal, but not many know what it takes to be God’s ideal man. In Search of the Proverbs 31 Man identifies God’s heartbeat concerning men. It points out the fact that a false understanding of manhood can be damaging not only to the individual, but to those for whom he cares a great deal. This book shows you that the Proverbs 31 man is not damaged goods; instead, he’s a ‘polished diamond’ in the eyes of the Great Diamond Maker.”
–Dr. Creflo A. Dollar, CEO of World Changers Ministries and author of The Successful Family

“Michelle McKinney Hammond never wastes even a second of your time. She skirts no issues, never runs from controversy, and consistently engages her readers in authentic and entertaining dialog. She is so quick-witted, outrageously funny, and she holds your attention from start to finish. This is one of her most perceptive books. It’ s right on the mark. It goes to the heart of the ever-present man—woman debate, and it weighs in on the side of truth, of what works, and of what it takes to build a satisfying relationship that will last a lifetime. She speaks strongly to men, and she speaks just as strongly to women. As a ‘seasoned’ clinical psychologist, I find her ideas highly stimulating and unusually helpful.”
–Neil Clark Warren, Ph.D., founder of eHarmony.com

“Who isn’t in search of the Proverbs 31 man? This book is for singles who want to know what character qualities are a must in a mate; for men who are confused by our culture and want to know what kind of man God esteems; and for women, tired of pressuring their men, who want to find the freedom of being a helper and soul mate. Michelle McKinney Hammond helps us discover the power of a Proverbs 31 couple who is willing to do it God’s way.”
–Jan Frank, speaker and coauthor of Unclaimed Baggage