About the Book
Now published by SAGE!
Cutting edge and student-friendly, Choices in Relationships takes readers through the lifespan of relationships, marriages, and families, and utilizes research to help them make deliberate, informed choices in their interpersonal relationships. Authors David Knox, Caroline Schacht, and new co-author I. Joyce Chang draw on extensive research to challenge students to think critically about the choice-making process, consider the consequences involved with choices, view situations in a positive light, and understand that not making a choice is a choice after all. The extensively revised Thirteenth Edition reflects the rapidly changing world with over 700 new research citations, a new feature on how technology effects relationships, revised “Culture and Diversity” features that focus on how choices in relationships vary across different cultures, new and increased coverage of single and LGBTQIA individuals, and more.
This title is accompanied by a complete teaching and learning package.
Table of Contents:
List of Self-Assessments
Preface
Acknowledgments
About the Authors
Chapter 1: Choices in Relationships: An Introduction to Marriage, Family, and Diversity
Choices in Relationships—View of the Text
Theoretical Frameworks for Viewing Marriage and the Family
Marriage
Family
Differences between Marriage and Family
Research Process and Caveats
Future of Marriage
Chapter 2: Love Relationships
The Meanings of Love Today
Social Control of Love
Theories on the Origins of Love
How We Fall in Love
Love as a Context for Problems
Jealousy in Relationships
Polyamory
Future of Love Relationships
Chapter 3: Gender and Diversity
Terminology of Gender Roles
Theories of Gender Role Development
Agents of Socialization
Consequences of Traditional Gender Role Socialization
Changing Gender Roles
Future of Gender Roles
Chapter 4: Singlehood, Cohabitation, and Living Apart Together
Singlehood
Changes in "Dating"
Hanging Out, Hooking Up, and Long-Distance Relationships
Cohabitation
Living Apart Together (LAT)
Future of Singlehood, Cohabitation, and LAT
Chapter 5: Selecting a Partner
Factors Involved in Selecting a Mate
Finding a Partner Online
Moving Toward Commitment
Love/Commitment
Important Considerations before you Say “I Do”
Future of Partner Selection
Chapter 6: Diversity in Marriage Relationships
Motivations for and Functions of Marriage
Marriage as a Commitment
Marriage as a Rite of Passage
Changes after Marriage
Diversity in Marriage
Marriage Quality
Future of Marriage Relationships
Chapter 7: LGBTQIA Relationships
Basic Terms
Problems with Identifying and Classifying Sexual Orientation
Origins of Sexual-Orientation Diversity
Heterosexism, Homonegativity, Homophobia, Biphobia, Binegativity, and Transphobia
LGBTQ Relationships
Coming Out to Siblings, Parents, and Peers
Same-Sex Marriage
LGBTQ Parenting Issues
Future of LGBTQ Relationships
Chapter 8: Communication and Technology in Relationships
Interpersonal Communication
Gender, Culture, and Communication
Making Choices for Effective Communication
Self-Disclosure and Secrets
Dishonesty, Lying and Cheating
Technology Mediated Communication in Romantic Relationships
Technology and the Family: Cell Phone/Tech Etiquette
Conflict Resolution
Future of Communication
Chapter 9: Sexuality in Relationships
Sexual Values and Sexual Choices
Sex and Gender
Sexual Behaviors
Sexuality in Relationships
Sexual History and Marriage Satisfaction
Being Sexually Safe
Sexual Fulfillment: Some Prerequisites
Future of Sexual Relationships
Chapter 10: Violence and Abuse in Relationships
Nature of Relationship Abuse
Recognizing and Resisting Abuse
Reasons for Violence and Abuse in Relationships
Sexual Coercion, Sexual Assault, and Rape
Abuse in Marriage and Long-Term Relationships
Effects of Abuse
The Cycle of Abuse
Child, Parent, Sibling, and Elder Abuse
Future of Violence and Abuse in Relationships
Chapter 11: Planning for Parenthood
Do You Want to Have Children?
How Many Children Do You Want?
Teenage Parenthood
Infertility
Adoption
Sterilization
Abortion
Future of Planning for Children
Chapter 12: Diversity in Parenting
The Choices Perspective of Parenting
Transition to Parenthood
Parenthood: Some Facts
Child Rearing Theories
Principles of Effective Parenting
Single-Parent Issues
Empty Nest via Emigration of Children
Future of Parenting
Chapter 13: Money, Work, and Relationships
Money and Relationships
Work, Relationships, and Families
Work and Family: Effects on Children
Balancing Work and Family Life
Balancing Work and Leisure Time
Future of Work and Family Life
Chapter 14: Stress and Crisis in Relationships
Personal Stress and Crisis Events
Stress Management Strategies
Family Crisis Examples
Marriage and Family Therapy
Future of Stress and Crisis in Relationships
Chapter 15: Divorce, Remarriage, and Stepfamilies
Definition and Prevalence of Divorce
Deciding Whether to End a Relationship
Macro Factors Contributing to Divorce
Micro Factors Contributing to Divorce
Consequences of Divorce for Spouses
Consequences of Divorce for Children
Prerequisites for Having a “Successful” Divorce
Remarriage
Stepfamilies
Future of Divorce and Remarriage
Chapter 16: The Later Years
Age and Ageism
Caregiving for the Frail
Issues Confronting the Elderly
Relationships Across Time
Grandparenthood
The End of Life
Future of the Elderly in the United States
Special Topic I: Careers in Marriage and the Family
Special Topic II: Contraception and STI Protection
Self-Assessments
Glossary
References
Index
About the Author :
David Knox, Ph.D., is Professor of Sociology at East Carolina University, where he teaches courtship and marriage, marriage and the family, and sociology of human sexuality. He is a marriage, family and sex therapist and the author or coauthor of twelve books and over 130 professional articles. He regularly presents new research at annual conferences with undergraduate/graduate students and colleagues. He and Caroline Schacht are married with three children and five grandchildren.
Caroline Schacht, M.A. in Sociology and M.A. in Family Relations, is formerly instructor of sociology at East Carolina University where she taught courtship and marriage, introduction to sociology, and the sociology of food. Her clinical work includes marriage and family relationships. She is also the coauthor of Understanding Social Problems and a certified Romana Pilates instructor.
I. Joyce Chang, Ph.D. is Professor of Child and Family Development at University of Central Missouri (UCM). Dr. Chang received her doctorate in Human Development and Family Sciences and Master’s degree in Interdisciplinary Studies (Psychology, Women Studies, and Statistics) from Oregon State University. Dr. Chang’s primary research interests are high-risk behaviors, relationship development, and impacts of technology on families. She has received awards for teaching, research, and service. Dr. Chang has also taught/lectured in Sweden, Taiwan, and the Netherlands.
Review :
“Choices in Relationships is a substantive textbook about relationships; it provides solid information about what students need to understand in terms of relationship theories, being proactive about their own relationship choices, and how to navigate contemporary relationships.”
“Choices in Relationships covers the first three levels of Bloom's taxonomy of learning. Perfect for a 100-level course. A review of multiple, applicable areas in a college student's life. This textbook is a backbone of knowledge for CDFS majors/minors.”
“Choices in Relationships is inclusive of the LGBTQIA experience and mindful of diversity.”
“Easy to engage a student learner, elaborate and insightful.”