The G-Spot, the Clitoris & the Simple Truth

First and foremost, I should tell you, I don't believe in the G-Spot. It's important to put that out there right up front. I said it. The emperor has no clothes and in saying so, the world did not end. I meant what I said, however. I don't believe in the G-Spot. This road has been a long hard one for me to walk. Popular culture and a myriad of sources tell me that I should be able to find my G-Spot. I've tried. Oh, how many times I have tried. Nothing. Ever. I've talked to many of my friends too. It took a lot of doing. I had to put my cards on the table first, then, just like I'm doing now. But, in the end, they all conceded that they'd never found theirs either. In whispered tones, cloaked in quiet reservation, without exception, they all told me what I thought they would, and in doing so, put the final nails in the coffin of my belief in the G-Spot. Without exception, I've not been able to find one woman in my circle who will declare she's found her G-Spot, even with all their searching. They, nor I, ever found a magic pleasure button. It all seemed so odd. I asked myself if we were all broken. But that seemed unlikely. If it was just right there, easy to find, one of us should have found it - at least one. A few of them said that they'd been able to cum during sex once or twice, usually when they were on top. The same thing had happened to me a few times, for a few weak orgasms, but it was never anything any of them could replicate, make happen consistently or with any predictability. Most of them admitted that they'd never done any concerted experimenting with cumming during intercourse in their own sex lives. A few laughed that their men could never last long enough. Some said their partners just wouldn't get it or they'd rush them along. They didn't want to bother. It just seemed like too much work and hassle. They all had vibrators. Some had partners who loved going down. To make a long story short, all of us had had limited, almost accidental experiences with orgasms during sex, but none of us really understood how they happened or were able to make them happen repeatedly, with any certainty. All of these interviews and conversations began to swirl around in my mind. There was something missing here. If none of us could find our G-Spots, that made me wonder if there was even such a thing. But many of the women I'd talked to admitted to at least getting close to orgasm during sex, if not actually having one at one point or another. If the G-Spot wasn't there, what was being stimulated during sex to bring them at least close to orgasm? I needed answers. I needed answers and I needed to them badly. Things weren't adding up to me. I did what I usually do when life throws a question that I can't answer in my face. I hit the books. I explored. I talked to people. When I don't have answers, I seek them. I did a lot of research until I was satisfied that I had a reasonable, working understanding of how women cum during sex, the clitoris and the G-Spot. Then I started testing my theories in the bedroom. What I found was surprising, shocking in some cases. What I learned was certainly never taught to me in high school sex ed. It wasn't taught to me at any point, and candidly, I had to dig pretty deep to find the answers. I won't lie, most of what's in this book is pure conjecture, not accepted facts, based on my own personal experiences. But, in the end, to me, it was the only explanation that made any sense. I'm confident now in saying that I don't believe in the G-Spot. I'm confident in saying that I do believe most women can cum during sexual intercourse. I'm confident that everyone out there would benefit from what I learned and that's why I wrote this book. -T.K. Hereford