New York Times Bestseller
"What, What? is a welcome--and joyful--reminder that true wisdom comes from asking the right questions. Should you read this book? Absolutely."
--Clayton Christensen, bestselling author of How Will You Measure Your Life?
Based on the wildly popular commencement address, this guide to the art of asking (and answering) good questions comes from the former Dean of Harvard University's Graduate School of Education and former University of Virginia President.
Whether we're in the boardroom or the classroom, we spend far too much time and energy looking for the right answer. But the truth is that questions are just as important as answers, often more so. If you ask the wrong question, for instance, you're guaranteed to get the wrong answer. A good question, on the other hand, inspires a good answer and, in the process, invites deeper understanding and more meaningful connections between people. Developing your ability for asking the right questions requires us to move beyond what we think we know about an issue or a person to explore the difficult and the unknown, the awkward, and even the unpleasant.
In Wait, What?, Jim Ryan, dean of Harvard University's Graduate School of Education, celebrates the art of asking--and answering--good questions. Five questions in particular: Wait, what?; I wonder...? Couldn't we at least...?; How can I help?; and What truly matters? Using examples from politics, history, popular culture, and social movements, as well as his own personal life, Ryan demonstrates how these essential inquiries generate understanding, spark curiosity, initiate progress, fortify relationships, and draw our attention to the important things in life--from the Supreme Court to Fenway Park. By regularly asking these five essential questions, Ryan promises, we will be better able to answer life's most important question: "And did you get what you wanted out of life, even so?" At once hilarious and illuminating, poignant and surprising, Wait, What? is an inspiring book of wisdom that will forever change the way you think about questions.
This bestselling book on lifelong learning reveals a simple yet powerful framework for unlocking potential:
- A Framework for Inquiry: Learn the five essential questions--Wait, what?; I wonder...?; Couldn't we at least...?; How can I help?; and What truly matters?--that form the backbone of a curious and engaged life.
- Effective Communication: Move beyond surface-level conversations to forge deeper, more meaningful connections in the boardroom and the living room by mastering the art of the right question.
- Enhanced Leadership Skills: Discover why the most effective leaders, from Supreme Court justices to innovative entrepreneurs, prioritize asking insightful questions over simply having the right answers.
- A Tool for Personal Growth: Drawn from a wildly popular commencement address, these lessons on curiosity and understanding provide a clear path to navigate life's biggest decisions and challenges.
About the Author :
James E. Ryan has served as the president of the University of Virginia, the dean of the Harvard Graduate Education School, and as a law professor. An expert on law and education, Ryan graduated summa cum laude from Yale and was first in his class at the University of Virginia Law School. He clerked for Chief Justice Rehnquist and has also argued before the Supreme Court. He is the author of Five Miles Away, A World Apart and the New York Times bestseller Wait, What? And Life's Other Essential Questions, based on his viral Harvard Commencement speech. A life-long athlete, Ryan played rugby in college and recently completed his 15th consecutive Boston Marathon. Ryan and his wife, Katie, who was a classmate at the University of Virginia Law School, have four grown children--Will, Sam, Ben, and Phebe.
Review :
"In these pages Jim Ryan distills several important questions we should all be asking ourselves--questions that promise greater clarity, compassion, wisdom, and in the end, fulfillment in our lives. Wait, What? is a welcome--and joyful--reminder that true wisdom comes from asking the right questions." - Clayton Christensen, bestselling author of How Will You Measure Your Life?
"Jim Ryan promises that asking five simple questions will bring clarity, curiosity, courage, compassion, and conviction. Why should we believe him? For one thing: he's right. Why should you care? Well, why not read the book--all in one sitting, as I did--and find out?" - Angela Duckworth, author of GRIT: The Power of Passion and Perseverance
"Jim Ryan promises that asking five simple questions will bring clarity, curiosity, courage, compassion, and conviction. Why should we believe him? For one thing: he's right. Of course, the trick is to keep asking the questions and to keep acting on the answers. If you do that, you'll get a very good answer to the bonus question at the end of the book. Why should you care? Well, why not read the book--all in one sitting, as I did--and find out?" - Angela Duckworth, author of GRIT: The Power of Passion and Perseverance
"It takes more brains to ask good questions than to give good answers. In these pages Jim Ryan distills several important questions we should all be asking ourselves--questions that promise greater clarity, compassion, wisdom, and in the end, fulfillment in our lives. Wait, What? is a welcome--and joyful--reminder that true wisdom comes from asking the right questions. Should you read this book? Absolutely." - Clayton Christensen, bestselling author of How Will You Measure Your Life?
"This compulsively readable book is that rare work that will appeal to both the secular and religious reader alike--in fact, any reader interested in hearing wise advice from a charming (and funny) author, and, most of all, leading a meaningful life." - James Martin, SJ, author of The Jesuit Guide to (Almost) Everything
"This beautiful book describes how to ask questions of others and ourselves that lead to a deep understanding about what matters most in life. The lessons are timeless, providing powerful insights that are relevant in all parts of our lives." - Tina Seelig, bestselling author of What I Wish I Knew When I Was 20, inGenius, and Insight Out